In this video and post I want to share my ideas about feminism, because I'm a married man and since my wife start to watch videos about faminimism in youtube, she changed her behavior and becaue of that we argue a lot and sometimes we even have little scandals. We have also a little two years old baby and I don't want him to hear all that. We lived with my wife 3 years in full love and happiness and the birth of our baby didn't affect our relation, even if some people they say that when the mother is taking care of the baby, she takes less care of husband, but that wasn't the case. I can say that after our baby was born we became even closer. That was in his first year, but after that she started to watch those feminists and I start to feel that they are poisining her head about men. Our relation is getting a bit worse... .
Even today we talked about this topic and I can't share all the details, but I can say that the effect of feminism on our little family is huge. I worry of course about our future. I want our baby to see his parents always together, not like me who have seen how his parents brake up after living almost 15 years together. I was about 15 years old and that was a
disaster for me.*
I understand the issue and why exactly feminists are doing that. They want to do everything men is doing. But, I think that's impossible, because man are stronger anyway and that's a fact. Let's take an example of the construction, can you guess why mostly man work there ? It's simple, because that's not that easy work to do. They lift usually heavy things, that woman can't lift at all, or she does that, it will be really hard or even harmful. Even psychologically there are things that woman can't resist at all, but the man can surpass that and always find the solution of his mental issue.
I'm not telling you that woman is weak, but I say that there are a lot of things are created especially for men that woman shouldn't participate in them, just like a man can't do things women can do. Let's take the example of siducing of an other man. Some women are professional in that. 😉
I also agree that women can resist something more than man as well. Like giving birth. It's even proven by sientists that man can't even resist that and his body is not at all ready for that even if he has feminine genitals.
So, from all this I think it's easy to state facts about that man and women are not always the same.
Of course man shoudln't harm a woman, just like he shouldn't harm an other man. When faminists talk about rape and violence, I wonder if woman can be also vilent ? When they say why they are not polititians, I say that they are more emotional than men maybe. Am I right ? Will a politician women more likely push the button of nucluar weapon ?
I want also to comfirm that I believe in equality between men and women and I'm not sexist at all. But, I'm just trying to be logic. I just don't like fanatism in any thing. It's doesn't matter if it come from men or women !
So, seeing so many protests from feminists in the world is making me wonder if they have family to take care about or a work to do or something more important. In my opinion, usually leaders of those protects don't even join. They usually manupulate the crowd and let them do all the dirty work. That's why I've never been in a protest in my life.
Or much more crazy things they are doing in the world to spoil minds of normal women who want to build a family with their lovely husbands.
I'm not saying that all feminits are the same, but I personally disliked the term feminism because it sound fanatic to me.
I like also rational thinking from people like Finn Mackay. She's also a feminist, but she defend the right of women in a very intelegent and peaceful way.
That's why I'll even follow here in twitter here : https://twitter.com/Finn_Mackay
And even invite her to steem because I would like her to join @threespeak to make sure that her content will not be censored and it will stay for ever in the blockchain.
I hope we will have less agressive people in this world in all the fields.